BJ, I will talk more later, but for now I want to remind you to not allow yourself to be rescue your WAW who is in crisis. She is putting the blame on your for her OM dumping her and she's made it clear she doesn't want to reconcile with you. She needs to experience what it is like to be alone and not wanted by you.
I see she is still using D3 to be her little tool in telling you how "mommy" is feeling.
Sandi,
Great to hear from you. Hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. Yes, that is the plan- no rescuing my W. I can't- she has to crash and burn in order to "get it". Besides, I'm not counting on my W's break up with OM to last anyways. Both my W and OM are so desperate for each others attention and OM to have his ego stroked at any cost that it is not practical to think that they WON'T cease contact for very long.
Talk to you soon.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
