Sara I agree with the whole perspective thing and would add that trying to change her perspective is basically saying her feelings are invalid.

O,
Going back to what coach said, I think you have a huge opportunity to stand up for your W and pull off a major 180. Not saying start a war in the family but a simple "don't treat my wife that way" would be incredible.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09