Yes, that's good. It will help you with the "after" feelings that you have to deal with. It is not unusual for the person who had the affair to feel like, "it's over. Let's not think of it." But that doesn't help the other spouse. It does need to be dealt with, not just the affair, but the things that went wrong in the marriage. Retrouvaille can lead you through these feelings. It is better than MC because it is led by couples who have successfully healed their marriages and moved onto to happy, rewarding, loving relationships, showing you the way through it. It is not bringing up the issues and talking about them for an hour, and then calling time and leaving you with unresolved feelings. At Retrouvaille, things do get resolved.
