We all spent the day together yesterday to celebrate my son's birthday. I had my game face on for most of the day but it was impossible to not think of her and the OM and how she would probably prefer to have him around rather than me. By the end of the day she was giving me alcohol induced back scratches, warm smiles and a hug.
Everyone says that the R with her and the OM will not last. I have my doubts. They had an EA but stopped once I found out. Now they are back together and I can tell that she really likes him. She talks about how they are taking things really slow, although I am pretty sure things are becoming more serious for them. Their R does not seem to be built on passion but on real feelings. I know she is concerned about their age difference but she likes him to much for that to matter.
I know in order to move forward it should not matter if they stay together or not since, I cannot just sit around and wait for her to come to her senses.