Thanks Sara, I know you're a big proponent of Retro, and I would love to do it.

I've asked W 3 times since D Day if she would attend, and each time she's refused, but that was then, this is now. She's so different since the fog seems to have cleared that she might be willing now.

I think I'll broach the subject some time here soon and see what she thinks. Maybe frame it in a "we seem to be communicating a lot better now, but I'd love to take it up another notch and I think this could help, what do you think?' kind of way.

Thanks for the suggestion.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.