My H and I started reading the book, After the Affair by Janis Spring when we were piecing. It is written from the perspectives of both spouses. We found it helpful. Took turns reading chapters and did some of the exercises. Then we went to Retrouvaille. That was the best! I felt like a tadpole changing into a frog -- the relationship grew legs and learned to walk on land!Check the website for dates and locations, www.helpourmarriage.org. It was the weekend that changed our lives, even though we walked in the door trying to reconcile. It strengthened us in so many ways.
