Half an hour later and now I am more confused than before. We just had a brief phone conversation as per agreement we made last night when she said "we need to talk..."
Now it appears she is once again willing to stay in the house as previously agreed. I know that that is best for the kids and makes much more financial sense. I still have the question I asked before - is it right to play house?
The one thing my wife is adamant about is that we not sleep in the same bed. RobX said I should not give in to that. But..I think at this point I need to respect this one wish. If that is the one thing she needs to be somewhat comfortable, is it not "more of the same" by disregarding her feelings and putting my needs ahead of hers?
People..please chime in. After finally admitting what I did to my wife, I would really appreciate some comments especially from female members.
One more thing - although I know it takes two to ruin a marriage, being purely objective, I know in this case it is mostly by fault. The guilt I feel for what I am doing to my kids and the woman I love is eating me alive. Any ideas on how to deal with the guilt? Is it time for professional help?
