I've Come Full Circle #27

[kat727]

This three weekend thing I had misread and thought it appled to both parents but I guess just the non-custodial one couldn't go three weekends without seeing the kids. I explained to him that it is difficult to do fun stuff during the week and then of course he throws out the "I only get to see them 8 days" card. Yes, that is true though the boys have asked you to help out with stuff during the week, you are just too busy.

I did actually say that "You created this situation and tend to cry foul an awful lot. You will have had them 3 weekends and then it is mine and you make plans behind my back without seeing what I have planned." The boys have their birthday on either side of the weekend and he is saying that this is all about that. Fact remains he should have discussed this with me. I am wobbling as I want the time with my kids but also know he could pick another time to do this and could celebrate their birthdays on the date.

kat