Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Orich]

My W also is holding some animosity toward my folks, which isn't helping me either. My parents have always been there when we needed them. Recently they have been a bit stand offish because they don't want to interfere, plus they don't know what to say. W has stopped emailing mom. So my folks love W, but are trying to stay out of our problems, but are still there for the kids. W thinks they are alienating her and has been making remarks to me about it. So, I am in a similar bind. Do I remind her that they have been good to us in the past and still love her, or stand by W and say they could try to contact her more.