Didn't see or hear from the boys since seeing them off to school last Wednesday, unitl yesterday afternoon. They were at the 'new' house in loserville. Still trying to figure out why they spend so much time there. S12 informed me that they now have the cable hooked up and he has it in 'his' room. Kept asking me when I was going to come see "their new house". Arrgh, I guess I'll have to eventually 'talk' with XW again about what her intent is down there. I'll probably just get the old "I don't know what I'm doing just yet" speech.
So, I made some really kick butt ribs yesterday and had 2 full slabs left. Made the cardinal no-no and texted XW that I had some left and if she would be willing to re-heat them for the boys should I drop some off. She responded shocker, said yeah she could, but is 'working' until 6 tonight. Funny, when we were on speaking terms she would always complain she has no hours at work?
So shortly after her final text of what time she'd be around, phone rings, but I was busy cleaning up the yard from the day. Then she texts again asking me to call her and needs money TODAY for school pictures. Well, I just texted back the sad reality of things that I have $4 left to my name until Friday and that was the last I heard from her.
That said, there must have be something else going on. Especially when it comes down to money issues, she normaly has S12 do her dirty work and call me while she coaches him in the background. I guess only time will tell. Of course she's probably pissed now because I have zero cash to shell out and I specificaly told her that I need to know about these types of things well in advance so that I can budget accordingly.
At any rate, I have a weird feeling she's reaching out for something else as well? Guess she went out and ditched the kids at our old house to go 'party'. Nice. But then again, when she gets in party mode, her and OM always get into a tiff. So that followed up by 2 days of him sitting around on his arse down there probably has her in a fantastic mood, not my problem.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11