Porn can be an addiction. We know he's an alcoholic--which is an addiction. You're not going to be able to get a handle on one until you get a handle on the bigger picture, and address the alcoholism as an entity in itself, as the source of behavior problems. Until that happens, you're putting bandaids over gaping wounds.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012