I agree with you guys. This is kind of a tentative thing, a new daycare program starting up so I prob. won't tell X. I'm sure D9 or S15 will at some point anyway, so prob. not a problem.
X emails me today that he wants to have more school days b/c D9 gets to sleep later when he has her (we have to get up an extra hour b/c I drive them both, S15 to high school and then her school, and X has them ride the bus and they need more of a set schedule and not the back & forth of Wed. night. Of course, D9's there just with S15 when he's running/at work and I'm home with her. So I would argue that one. And will probably have to.
I sent him an email since he's wanting a more set schedule, that instead of him having Wed. nights he could have an extra night then before or after the weekends he has them or Saturdays on the weekends I've been having them. So the same number of days and no back & forth during the week. Or we could leave the schedule to Wed. night and every other weekend as we've been doing. If he has a problem with those options, I'll take it to my L.
The positive is not too many regrets over D him, more that it didn't happen sooner. I'm hoping some of this will get better when it's over. Although I'm probably wishful thinking.
