I've pretty much always carried the load around the house since I'm generally more tidy than my wife is. However she did admit that at times it made her a little stressed to see me doing more than she did, since she thought it's not really fair of her. Especially when she'd be doing something like the dishes, get pulled away dealing with the kids, and then come back to see me finishing the dishes up for her.

Now I kind of leave it to her to finish what she starts. Even though it means the house stays messy for longer that way.

Not sure if your wife feels the same way, but she might.


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