You don't have to believe anything until you experience it.
So stop debating with her and start doing. Diplomacy doesn't win wars.
Show your wife what it looks like for someone to not be defensive. (let her experience it.)
Show your wife how to forgive. (let her experience it.)
Show you wife what true giving is. (let her experience it.)
Show your wife what compassion is. (let her experience it.)
She doesn't believe you. You can continue to wait for her to change or you can lead.
Take it from someone who has experienced it. Have some faith.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
