Cool on the FB. You don't even have to use your real name if you don't want.
It sounds like a calm talk. It sounds like this may be what he needs. Some of them do have to go. I have wondered if being here was too difficult for H as well, but I have to let that be up to him for as long as I can handle it.
The mediation MIGHT make things seem more real to him. It might open his eyes just a tiny bit. You just never know. I read on here all the time about the S who wants it ending up being the one slowing it down when it actually comes. Just wierd but some times we have to actually experience things to grasp what they really entail.
Sorry for losing the train of the original thought. LOL.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
