So you mean to tell me, you came home and saw his door shut and you thought that much about it?
Really?
Look....what do you want to do? If you want to get into bed with him, get into bed with him. If you want to give him his space, give him his space and sleep in another bed.
Do you realize the possibility he didn't even NOTICE he shut the door is almost 100%? He may have got up, the door was opened, he went to the crapper, did his business and then in a half sleep mode, kicked the door shut, not even thinking of what he was doing?
Then you come home and go back and forth over nothing?
Stop thinking so much about what he wants. What does Gina want? Does that cause a problem? Will his feelings be hurt?
Here's what I mean.
There's one diet coke left in the fridge....what does Gina want? Well, Gina is thirsty and wants that diet, but knows it's the last one. If Gina drinks it, will that cause a problem? Well Gina stands there and remembers H said this morning, "Oh, one diet coke left, I'll get some more on my way home." So guess what? You can drink the last diet coke because H already told you he would get more. And he does, so everyone's a winner.
What I'm saying is think about yourself here a bit, think about your own mental well being. Don't be selfish and bitchy but think about you too. If you KNOW H needs some space, just give it to him. Understand, it's not you. He just needs a break. And he doesn't want to hang out with his parents or other family or friends either, not just you. He doesn't want to think sometimes. Just like you sometimes want to be....and I mean just be, no thoughts, no stress, no agenda. Just be.
