So..I was gone all weekend long and he was home every night and every day...I did mess up when I got home and we had a talk..I told him it was too hard to live day by day and I thought I got through to him..He told his friend( much older friend, never been married) that he told me it was over and that he "cared" about me as the mother of his children. My husband DID not leave the house ALL WEEKEND..if there was OW that he was in love with and he was home alone from Friday to Monday wouldn't they have found a way to be together? I do not know how in a matter of 4 months I went to being his best friend to his friend to caring about me as the mother of his children. He did agree to look into going back to school..not at first..I did not badger him I just said we need to find a solution to this mess and start looking toward the future. I had a talk with my mom and my aunt this weekend that know him very well and they think he is depressed and this is his way of running(something he has always done)..I know he hates his job..We did ML when I got home...but you can tell he was just not into it. To be expected..I really think he wanted to go with us this weekend but he could not do it. I dont know what he wants right now but he did agree to go to therapy..not with an open mind however...he said he was going to tell the therapist the same thing he told me..One day at a time! I know that it may have seemed that I was badgering yesterday but it only lasted about 30 mins. and then I went to the store and stopped for the rest of the night. So where do I go from here? I know his sister is playing a big part in all of this. He is a very stubborn man and once he has his mind made up it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to change it. I stayed upbeat and positive each time I spoke with him this weekend. I asked him if he wanted to speak to D4 and he said not right now..he said did you tell her I was on the phone..I think it was his way of detaching himself from the fact that he did not go. If there was OW would he have not found a way to be with her this weekend?? What do I do now?
