Very very similar here Cat. I think depression hidden to some degree. Old mate says H will participate in sport again a bit, where as couldn't be bothered / not worth it few months ago. Very close SIL says she has never seen him withdrawn from her and family like this in his life. He has just shut down.

Very same home way of dealing with things at home, works the best for us too. I am also very effected by others feelings, one of my me issues I have been working on.

Spending patterns back to pre crisis levels still. Bouncing size not sure, my perception at the moment makes unbiasis cycles difficult to pick!