BJ, I will talk more later, but for now I want to remind you to not allow yourself to be rescue your WAW who is in crisis. She is putting the blame on your for her OM dumping her and she's made it clear she doesn't want to reconcile with you. She needs to experience what it is like to be alone and not wanted by you.
I see she is still using D3 to be her little tool in telling you how "mommy" is feeling.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
