Thanks for that. He did not tell me what he wanted to buy directly, but lack of disclosure means toy. It will come out. Not large (couple days pay) so can handle it in the bigger picture.
If he really is working through this and this spending gets less and less, I can handle that. But if its a second episode of Replay coming up, I want to draw a firm line asap? Of course, how to tell? My instincts say no alarm bells, a lot of teenager stuff at the moment. He was trying in the talk last night, but clearly looking to me for direction as well.
Do you tell your H where your head is at? I said I was focussed on one day at a time right now, living my best life possible each day. I do feel like I want to say hey don't think I will leave this window open for ever, we can work this out you know (yeah and a lot more sometimes too!), but I guess that will come up in time.
Winds picking up a bit of speed, how much is it us putting up the sails on our own boats too?
He's away for work for a while longer, so some much needed space for me to regroup.
