Before I go, I just want you to remember another mantra - and you have to keep this one upfront because you are going to need it alot in the near future:
"Don't believe anything they say and only 50% of what they do"
My H sounds like yours, genuine, loving, sensitive, caring ... and NEVER would I have believed that he could do a fraction of what he has done lately to hurt me, including calling the cops to come to the house to sort me out! They are not 'here' in the real world right now... we have to get to grips with that and 'Act as if' .... you know the rest!!
I'm out of here Rabbit ... got some of my own thinking to do now in how I am going to address H's email ... I have time though ... it won't be today and it won't be tomorrow. You know? It might not even be until next week!!
Hang in there and give madam an apple for me!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"