John, Hope you are doing well...please don't make any rash decisions out of hurt or anger right now. It may have seemed to you that this has been going on forever but it has not. There is nothing wrong with sitting down with your wife and seeing if anything is left...continue with your legal issues but...can you try to see a MC? Sometimes you just have to keep telling yourself it will get better...all relationships have ups and downs (not this bad most of the time, thank God)...something to think about...start slow with family time. Maybe it is over but you two have not been thinking the same thing at the same time yet to even try...if youtry and she is the same then wrap it up. Take care
