Good Rabbit ... I'm not sure that I have helped you, other than to get you to stop sign and breath ... it helps in slowing the 'flight or fight' adrenaline which is coursing through us at times like this. Not a good time to react ... it's why we all advocate taking at least 24hrs before doing anything that's provoked by our WAS.
Good. That's a big one out of the way for you - I think that was your first whammy, wasn't it?!!
May not be wise to change the password long-term. Again, I was furious when H did that to me, although I had gone back to the UK and he only kept it that way for 24hrs before he realised that it was not the right thing to do! Actually, I think that what he realised was that any monies coming out of the account may tip me off to what was going on before he had the chance to tell me for himself.
H is many things at the moment but I know that he at least had the integrity to tell me about ow before I got to find out by other means. It still hurt like hell. To him, he had ended the M and so he still does not consider that he is having an A. Laughable! Are we still legally M? Yes. There you go then, bit of a no brainer, really!!
Just allows him to have a guilt-free concscience ... until he goes to sleep at night because it must haunt him then, as I am sure it will for most men worth their salt.
Sorry - felt my first rant of the day getting the better of me there! Must concentrate on the fact that Silence is Golden and H has broken it!! That makes me smile.
So, how are you doing now??
Last edited by Eskimo Nell; 09/08/0911:33 AM.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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