Much calmer now thanks Nell, I have changed the password to the online banking, it can be changed back no problem quickly, but now he wont be able to get online to check anything. So if he phones to say he's got a problem or have I changed the password, I can play dumb and ask him if he has paid the mortgage or is there anything else I need to know on financial side! Have to say that I really feel he has entered alien territory big time now, I had come to terms that he isnt MY H anymore but its really sunk home now!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
