Yeah, I took it as the timing isn't right yet. I don't know that this "couple of dates" would count as a whole relationship in terms of rebound...I'd have to check his criteria list!! One major criterion for a serious relationship is that the woman is a Christian, and he's mentioned a few casual relationships as pleasant, good company, but no potential because they're not Christian. I think that the real danger is that I am--and a few other positive things as well. Does that make sense?

Ah, xH has found time in his schedule to have D13 overnight tonite--picking her up at 9 pm due to his work schedule. And that's it for the week. She's sad, but I get the sense that she has lowered her expectations significantly.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012