No Rabbit - go nowhere just yet. Get really calm first and then you will enjoy madam more later. You wouldn't be safe to drive right now, never mind riding in fury - that's not fair on madam, nor yourself!! Sit tight. Keep that stop sign up front and continue your deep breathing.

From what you say, I would agree that it's most likely to be the accommodation agency BUT you still have to know or you won't rest. Also, it's your right to know where money out of your joint account is going!

I have to say, if H is having an A, would he be as brazen as to pay for such stuff out of your joint account? Don't rule out that there could be an ow - that would be deluding yourself at this time and you also have to find that out - however hard it may be to face up to it.

Seems most likely at the moment though that it's the letting agent. Work on that fact, until you find out otherwise. Sometimes we have to 'fake it before we make it' and this might be one of the things that we 'fake' in our own minds ... what do you think??


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09