Still breathing Nell and gradually getting calmer..
Its a bill payment rather than something that has been paid, as in he can use it to pay a bill in the future all the details are in he just has to set a date and amount! So there is nothing to query with the bank, just with him!
At the moment I want to ring him and tell him what a coward he is being letting me find out that way, or putting his S in a position of knowing and keeping it from me. But as you say it could be his name and accomadation owners name to clarify for the letting agency.
Also I feel that S would not be so easy going with H if he was having an affair, where as he understands that things dont always work out in M's not really explaining that very well! Still shaking with shock. But then that does explain why he doesnt seem to know/care I exist any more..
Im not really even sure what Im typing, I need to go and ride madam but Im in such a tiss Im worrying about driving, got to keep this together somehow I just dont know how at the moment!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
