Make sure because this is your opening to get things on track. She is in the "crisis" that she needed and will probably now make the necessary changes to get this back on track. You would still need to handle this with the correct procedure so that the reconcilation is successful, but this is probably your opening that you desperately wanted.
I really don't think that I do. I now see what I should have seen years ago--how controlling she is. She has not offered to make any changes and/or shown remorse in a timely manner. It's almost like I was a backup plan. Once I cut her off, I became a different person that I like, one that is not worried about how the wife is going to react when I do something or don't do something--very liberating. I don't know that I could ever trust her again--another thing that I've pondered over since I stopped talking with her.
I intend to call the lawyer again today for an appointment and just pay the money this week. I don't ever want to feel this way again, EVER! It's not fair to me--I've done nothing to deserve this and it's not fair to my daughter--she's been on an emotional rollercoaster as well.
Last edited by AFWAW; 09/08/0910:56 AM.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
