T I'm probably playing amateur detective here and getting it all wrong BUT it seems like your XH suddenly want to spend a lot of time with your youngest D. Given that he is also going on about child maintenance do you think the two are connected?

I only ask b/c this is exactly what happened to me and now it is me who pays him maintenance whilst I get nothing at all from him.

Be careful


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15