Well didnt even have chance to ponder on H this morning as just as I was coming round to the cat complaining about the lack of service this morning the phone rang too and it was the bank after the mortgage. I cant answer one of the security questions so she wouldnt really talk to me but I did tell her that H didnt live here any more and hadnt for the last six weeks, and that he had said he was going to pay the mortgage last wednesday and apparently hasnt! On top of that I now know he cant as he doesnt have a card to do so! Because of the way he gets paid we cant pay it by standard Direct Debit, so its always a bit behind or we are paying extra to clear it. I had asked that he clarified the latest situation when he paid it then I would take over paying it if he put the money in our joint account. Arrrrrrhhh I dont want to contact him certainly not until a week before he last contacted me which is thursday evening. What do I do?
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
