Bobbi,

I wanted to post to you before, after your big convo about him realising it was over with ow and he didnt want to move in with her... but I couldnt find the words (as it seemed I was going 'against the flow' here..) but reading your latest post bought tears to my eyes. I am so glad for you that he is finally waking up.. no, he's not there yet, he is still holding back a bit, worried, guilt ridden.. but wow, he is going to break up with her and offered for you to be present (by phone) when he does? Thats incredible.

Dont be afraid, or cynical and I dont feel you should file either if your heart is not in it. So he has another chance, if he is the love of your life, despite his weaknesses and faults, then follow your heart. Some people deserve a second chance.. and third.. and fourth, I should know.

Love and good luck with the phonecall (when is it?) Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
my thread