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If Gucci's words are correct Oz - and why would they not be? - then you have detached and you should be proud of having done so. You shook things up and you got H to question what was really going on in your home.

Take this medal, for it is given with good heart for a big achievement.


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Morning Nell

I know I did do some things right, but I also got some things wrong. I can't beat myself up over those things though, although I feel things have gone a bit backward, not much but a bit.

Planning on buying one of the dresses I am wearing tonight, I really love it, quite stunning and sexy at the same time, so I plan to wear that one home after the dinner and everything. Going to ask one of my friends to take her camera to take a couple of photos for me if only for my sake for doing the parade.

Getting a bit nervous but excited as well.



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Hey ((Oz))
Read back over your threads ... the answer is in there for you, I'm sure. I think that it was the laundry not being done but that's mho!!

You sound a bit flat now in your post. I hope that this is not putting you back a step? It should not. It should be driving you forward to grasp that moment again and shake something else up. That is what I would be doing and embracing what Gucci and SDF have said.

Don't fret over this too much today ... try to take the info, think over it and then put it away until this evening when you will have more time to ponder your next move. Just enjoy your day at work and some regular 'you' time!

Catch you later ..


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Yep, bit flat today, have to snap out of it though for tonight.



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You are going to be amazing!!

Stand up, shake yourself down and then think "I am fab and I CAN do this" - repeat as many times as needed!!


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Will do, my girlfriend just said she is bringing her camera and will take some photos for me.



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Its frustrating that we can't leave personal email addresses on here ... would love to see the pics! Any other way of putting a link on .. ??

Knock 'em dead Oz - you are going to be amazing ... remember the swagger and have some BIG PMA going on!! Will be thinking of you!!


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Well the hair is all done, soft tousled curls, very sexy.

Once the makeup is done, D is doing that for me when I get home and the dresses are on, I should look pretty damn fine I think.

Getting butterflies now as the time is getting closer.



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Its frustrating that we can't leave personal email addresses on here ... would love to see the pics! Any other way of putting a link on .. ??


Yes, we used to do that kind of stuff, but now it's not allowed. There is a group on facebook that we use to post pictures and get email addresses. The easiest way to get into that group is to have a facebook page of your own, then search for Kalni Sunshine and ask her to friend you and invite you to join the group. Then post your DB name and your facebook page name on the introductions list, and you can post pics if you want.

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Sorry Nell, was posting when you were. I am no good with links and stuff unfortunately.

Will try and remember to swagger and put on my biggest smile because as SD said "I won't be sitting on my nicely dressed, absolutely fabulous behind waiting for him to have a change of heart", I am going out to embrace new and different things to make me a better me.



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