thanks for your replies, I dont know what to think, I am just sitting and watching the show, have had more feedback from close friends and all saying not good down there, I dont think ex will finish it with wifey I think she will be the one that finishes it, if and when it should happen, and this will happen when shes found someone else, she wont put up with his jealousy and not been able to go out on her own, this she as done with other guys, whatever, I really dont care, his relationship with son is all I am concerned about.