Originally Posted By: Stronger
HOWEVER, if they are still married, no filing, and they have an OP, that's marital misconduct and should it go to divorce the spouse that was not involved with an OP or another relationship is going to be able to take the cheater to the cleaners.


Wow I like Florida law! Too bad I'm living in California right now (No fault D State).

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More than once, I told my H, "You think you can do better than me? What are you waiting for?" I've said this in more recent days....not in the beginning when I was a scared idiot. Before I found DBing. I wish I had said it to him the first night, but neither here nor there now.


This is a great attitude for an LBS to have. Very appealing. Hope, this is the message you need to get across to your H. Great advice from Stronger.


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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