I have had to cut contact with many friends due to them knowing me and ex. When they would call it was only to tell me what ex had told them or to tell me some other gossip about him. It was way too painful for me. So I have made new friends and moved on. Many people just want to be nosey and pass on hurtful things to you. It is so very destructive.
I am just starting to accept that ex may not ever resemble the man I knew. I can't wait for him any longer. I don't even like to be around him.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
