It really is encouraging finding people who know exactly what I am going through. I don't know ANYONE in "real life" that has gone through/is going through this. I would love to meet someone else's MLCer and see if I could spot it in them.
That is how H was all summer - seems like he ran out the door before dinner every night. So now him being home is strange (but good). He just walked in the door a few minutes ago (never said where he was of course) and I managed to be pleasant (oops - had to quick shut this down for a minute - he came in :)) and not throw anything. He is down with the kids now.
Do you think your H is waiting for you to say something about the letter or trying to test your reaction?
Am trying to hang in there with all the grace I can muster. We could be waiting at that finish line a long time!