Forgive the hijack SP, but I really am trying to rally people to look at Lost41 post's. I know that you have a lot of volume on your thread.

Her son tried to commit suicide (in part it seems like due to her marital situation)- she really could use support. I can't even imagine what she is going through. It happened a few days ago.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)