Gosh your situation is so much like mine it's unreal!
I know exactly what your talking about, and the way you are feeling when I'm reading what you have written.
The Alien that resides at my house, use to leave right before dinner was done. It was almost like he was listening for me to take the plates out of the cupboard and then jet out. The first couple of times I was so hurt ( How could he resist my cooking, he never could before ) After a while, and when I got stronger, it got to be amusing!
I so can relate to what you said in the last paragraph. We do deserve better than this! But they are goofy guys right now. I feel I have come a long way in my journey also. They are not there yet. I thought mine might have been, but no.
It's funny... Since H got home, he hasn't even asked me about the letter. I wonder if he even remembers writing it. It was five days ago! lol He doesn't even look uncomfortable to me either!
Hang in there girl! We will all get there! We can meet them at the finish line and cheer for them when they cross over!
) After a while, and when I got stronger, it got to be amusing!
