DID XH M OW or not??

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, peacetoday.

I don't recall if I have ever posted to you, but I am in much the same place you are I think. I have done well at letting my H go with love and wished him well, and things are quite "amicable"...... yet the hurt is still very much there and it doesn't make sense AT ALL!

I hate the feeling of being so "helpless"....... I mean of course we can only control ourselves, but..... I don't know.....I guess it's just so hard to believe that the H's we knew and loved for so many years just vanished!!

Anyway, I have no words of wisdom......just of understanding and sympathy.

Take care.

((((((hugs))))))