3 years of S, OW gone - What do I want?

[peacetoday]

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It is so hard t oreally understand these MLCer/wAS
here he is reconnecting
you and he are enjoying good communication
here are his kids
BUT
it seems so baffling and happens to often on these boards
they just cant recommit to the R
so after all this time
fence sitting
A for them
they dont want to be M or work things out
I dont get it b/c so much of the time we LBS want to work it out
so IM sorry he is pushing the whole D idea along
But I know you will be ok--It is truley hard to go thru the battle of D..but for me it brought closure
something I believe I needed before I could really move forward
I think you are wise to keep the communication good
and keep reminding him he is a good father
this will motivate him to continue reconnecting with tthe boys
hang in
peace