Yes, they call to talk to both parties. We happened to both be home, so they talked to us both in one phone call. But I have heard of spouses having to call them back because they weren't home when the call came in. This is just like real estate, location, location, location. You presence has to be driving her crazy. Hopefully, she is getting overbearing and demanding or whiny and crying. The longer you hold the prime real estate, the better it is for you.
