Also, as far as luring goes....would it be possible for kidlet to have a sleepover at a friend's house? And you could be home dusting and vacuuming in that really cute little french maid's costume from Victoria's Secret when he comes home from work...or, my favorite, a few steps from the show "Shimmy" wearing a belly dance scarf around your hips (and nothing else) while he watches. You don't need a long dance, about 30 seconds seems very effective.
