Hey JKL, hang it there. Sounds like you're doing the right thing. I experienced a similar process about a month ago. My W and I also watched Fireproof when she was about 10% interested in saving the M (about last Feb or Mar). She seemed interested in it, but nothing really happend after that. She did like the happy ending though... It is positive that part of your W sees the possibility of reconciling. I'm still waiting for my W to say something like that but she is still stuck in the thick "fog".
When I was taking the elevator down with my W to load boxes into her car, she said, "How did we get here?" On another trip she made similar comments to what your W said: "This is really hard" and started crying. She also said, "This is so sad, so sad" and started crying while hugging me. I just don't get it.
The path that the WAWs are on seem similar. My W though is living with the OM, so mine's a little different. She did share with her family that she moved out and that she is filing for divorce. Her family is very sad and shocked. I can relate...
Me:41 W: 36 No Kids
EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd
W said we may not make it: JAN09 W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09 Moved out: 7/31/09