I know I lost it for H before I left, and I'm sure he lost it for me as well. He earned my respect back by never being a day late or a dollar short with the child support. I wonder if I'm earning his back by putting this house to rights from stem to stern? Seducing him won't gain his respect. But maybe working on the issues will?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
