I really hate to rain on any guys parade, especially when it comes to a new flame, but did it occur to you that maybe she's not as ready for you as you are for her? I mean, I get nervous on a date where she's bashing her ex or says things like... "He's mad at me and we don't talk, well I'm mad at him to". It's especially troubling when a child is involved. I only say something because I dated a Woman like this for a couple of months. I couldn't help but wonder if she really wasn't still stuck in the past. She was the one that left him but they really had trouble communicating for their daughter's sake. I felt like I was in the middle of something I didn't want to be in. I told her I think it would be best if we not date anymore. I had not slept with her up to that point, because that feeling was nagging at me and I didn't want it to progress to far before feelings were hurt.

That past relationship has to be reconciled between the two of them. There has to be an understanding of mutual cooperation and respect between the two of them, or there is going to be trouble. Just my humble opinion based of DAM experience. Be careful!


"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain