Hi WL, I was just stopping by to say hi. Heard from W lately?
yeah, like always we talk alot... had a talk with the coach and she suggests keeping open contact with W and let her open up on her own. keep validating and work on a few things we disscussed... (long story short for right now) I just kept GALing hanging out with friends all weekend and tons of time on my motorcycle which with this weather is what i drive everywhere. the texts from W have been increasing everyday. sunday I picked up W at her apt. on the bike (she even invited me in while i waited for her to get ready) then we went to the fair (ran in to her brother.. I was hanging with earlier in the day) and then went out to meet some of my friends who were at the bars. they left the first bar so we went to another one (just missed them there but ran into brother inlaw again) then we went to the first bar again as the friends went back there and ran into brother inlaw again LOL
we both had so much fun. kissed a few times during the night. then dropping her off I stayed on the bike just to show her i was not expecting anything else. she had me call her when I got home to make sure i made it safe.
several texts were exchanged today where she thanked me for last night.
right now its a bit strange. almost like we are dating but not really a "date" just having fun hanging out. there was some talk at the fair and her thought on how she wishes things were not this messed up. but i refrained from probing into the thoughts more I just validated, let her say what she felt like saying and we talked about other random things.
