Picnic analogy

[mishka422]

To add one thing to K's post (and please, please, please people....listen to what she is saying!), when your WAS starts showing interest in you again because you are making a life for yourself without them, don't quit what you are doing thinking that it's worked and now you can go back to the way things were. You have to keep pushing your own limits and keep doing so the rest of your life. This is about you, not about doing something to re-attract your S. Falling back into old patterns will only suffice to show them that nothing has changed and they shouldn't come back to what they left.