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[RedSoxFan]

While what you did was horribly devastating to her, I think you have to bear in mind that she has to bear up her own share of responsibility too.

Well, even though most of the bad stuff was probably my responsibility, I don't feel like she owned up to her part. She did come clean with the affair, admit everything, apologize and of course she didn't leave. As a result she feels like she's in a good place. I on the other hand didn't do so well. I wasn't honest at first, etc., etc. and of course I ended up leaving. I was an alien. I feel like she has applied double standards when it comes to the two of us but she disagrees. It's hard because I mostly believe I've done a lot more wrong than she. I feel like just a little acknowledgment that she was responsible too would go a long way. Maybe she does assume responsibility where it's appropriate and I just refuse to accept that in many cases the responsibility is all mine.