1. As far as H, I wrote abt the 180 of calling the other day. The next day I dropped off mail at the shop and was in and out in 5 mins. But I was lookin' good!! Wore a dress to work with heels (normally a jeans and t-shirt kinda gal) and based on the compliments I was getting at work, I'm confident he had to be thinking I looked good when I came into see him.
2. Tmrw, I go to his store to sell the ski passes. Doubt I'll see him, but plan to be confident and pleasant either way. It's his loss if he can't see what a great thing we could have together.
3. I still can not fathom how my H could not be more responsive to my sitch with my dad, or respond to my messages about bills, etc. He isn't a mean guy so I can only assume he doesn't know what to say. Continue trying to be nice, but not a doormat. Time will tell if it's the right course, but it feels right so I'm going with it.
Keep lookin' good! I know it makes YOU feel better...and this is about YOU now! Yeah, he saw you lookin' good too!
Yeah, it IS his loss if he doesn't reconcile. Good...be confident and pleasant regardless!
That's because he is not the same man right now! Don't assume! Be nice...but be assertive...and respectful...to yourself as well as to him. It feels right because it IS right...right now! Do what you gotta do to keep a fresh batch of endorphins bathing your gray matter!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
