Ok, didn't send it. Held my phone in my hand for bout half an hour before posting on here instead of sending it. He suckered me in with the most upbeat conversation we had for over a week, then dropped it in what he did with a clunk. I was trying to pick my words carefully to reply(I havn't even raised my voice at him for three months, let alone go off at him!), stuffed up by implying he was controling our finances, I meant his actions, such as wanting to sell our assets were controling them, but there was a toddler/door/finger situation in the background that needed my immediate attendance.

We were actually working our way ok through the delicate conversation well, I guess, both great tones, he started several sentences "you never let me, no I mean I didn't"...I guess that is a positive.

I was actually feeling great all day, my horroscope says starting today its a very tough relationship peiod for two weeks, completeion of many things. Might just have to go dark NO contact for two weeks to keep myself out of trouble!

Ok, moment pasted, conversation recalled, thanks for the support, again! Have 20 people rocking up in a few hours, back later